21 iunie

21 iunie. ora 1:37

Invizibil pentru mult, important pentru noi/mine.

3 luni din noua mea viata au trecut. Nu, asta nu e o realizare, e doar..un punct. A venit, a trecut, il asteptam pe urmatorul. Nu e mult, nu e putin, e 3 luni, si sunt cu tine. Un sfert de an. 92 de zile. Ceva mai multe ore, de parca ar conta cate..

3 luni in care doi oameni s'au cunoscut mult si mult prea putin. In astea 3 luni ne'am plimbat printre rafturile vietii, si am ales. Locatii, evenimente, clipe dragi, clipe mai putin dragi. Destine si vieti. Am ales impreuna, desi inca nu stim ce am ales, dar ce conteaza..

3 luni in care s'au consumat...peste 1000 de saruturi, nenumarate atingeri, luari de mana, seri petrecute unul la altul in brate, nopti dormite impreuna, dimineti jucate ca doi copii. Promisiuni ca viata va fi la fel mult timp de acum incolo.

Astea's...datele statistice.

Sunt 3 luni in care mi'am dat seama ca n'am gresit cand ti'am zis ca te iubesc cu mult timp inainte. 3 luni in care am inceput sa invat ce inseamna acele doua cuvinte, sa le dau sensul meu propriu. 3 luni in care am pus fundatia verbului "a iubi".

Continuarea, o punem impreuna. Da'mi, te rog, urmatoarea caramida. :)

Copilarie

The human being is, by nature and definition, a creature that is always in pursuit of a goal. Humans must always have what to do, somewhere to go, people to meet, great things to achieve. For each age there are certain goals that every one of us tries to achieve, and these goals are unique for every person out there. Thus, we can say that the human being is a being defined by evolution. On its quest to find knowledge, understanding, love, friendship or other things, one evolves from a simple and innocent child to a responsible and complex adult.

Children start setting their own goals at different ages. In the early stages of their childhood, children can’t think further then their immediate needs. Needs like food, water, sleep, love, someone to play with, fun, and other such things. The complicated process of maturing starts when a child feels the need of other things, besides these. Things like a family, friends, people who can listen to him and understand him are things that matter more and more to the growing human. After reaching puberty, that adolescence, children feel the need of a person of the opposite sex close to them. After that period, the child is stating to become and adult, with a defined personality, and can then start to achieve his life-lasting goals: happiness, success, money, a happy family, and many, many more. But it all starts in childhood. That’s the most important period of anybody’s life.

In the first years of a child’s life, his brain focuses on some simple, yet very important tasks. Food, water and company are the most important things in the toddler’s life. Until he’s 2-3 years old, the child has to be fed by his parents, who must also offer him a cozy and loving home. Mostly people misjudge the importance of this period in a child’s life. If he is used with love and care since he is small, he’ll be a happy and warm person all his life. The loss of one parent in this period, caused by accidents, divorce or other types of separation can have drastic effects on the personality of the child. He will always need the lost mother or father, and no-one will ever be able to fill that goal in his heart. It is in these times when parents must be very careful what they do around the child, how they act and how they take care of him, for if they do this well, he will grow up nicely. In this time he will learn to speak, walk, and other such things, and thus he will start to be a social person, communicating with the others.

Now start a different phase of his growth. As the child reaches 4, 5 or 6 years of age, his needs will start to get more and more complex. One of the most important things he will focus on in this period is … fun. He will always want to play, to have toys, to make fun things, to learn new things, and thus he will want to have company from and with which to learn these things. The parents must thus spend time with the child; try to show him a little bit of everything there is to know about the world outside. In this period, the child is very, very curios. He will always ask questions, and one of his favorites will be “Why?” Good answers for these questions are necessary, and the parents must always be ready to give them. Playing with children is also very important, and must be done as often as possible. This is the last phase of a child’s growth where the whole responsibility is in the arms of the parents. In the next phase, school will play a very important part in a child’s life.

Now begins a whole new life for children. At school, they one of the first things that they learn is that they’re not the most important person in the world and that there are other kids, just like them, sitting in the benches near them. Here a child learns discipline, respect, and here he finds all the knowledge he will ever want. Teachers will always be ready to answer his every question. He will find colleagues, and make friends that could last a lifetime. This period is very important in a child’s evolution. Children are all sociable persons, and only society can change this. So if children can maintain their level of sociability throughout school, he will have a lifetime to make all the friends he will need. The most important qualities in these days are creativity, adaptability and teamwork. All these are based on bonds made with other people, and the knowledge to create these bonds is gained in this period of a child’s life. Parents mustn’t leave all the work of raising their child to the school; they must also offer him all the conditions necessary for him to succeed.

In the next period, once he finishes his elementary studies, a child start to have more and more complex needs. He start to search for groups of people that accept him as he is, groups who understand him and who value him. From this moment on, the entourage of a child is very, very important. Friends can have a big word in the evolution of a child, and peer pressure can lead him to bending the rules, or, even worst, start to have some bad habits. In this period, some children start smoking, skipping school, getting bad marks, and other such things. It is also the time that they reach puberty, and thus start to feel stronger and stronger attractions for the opposite sex. In this period they start to define their personality. They start to have their own passions, needs, likes and dislikes, their principles; they’re starting to act like responsible people. Starting to build up their own life.

Then, they reach adolescence. Children are now teenagers. From this moment on, their needs look like the needs of an adult. They need company, love, understanding, the feeling that they belong somewhere and with someone. They have their own ideas, and are willing to fight for them. Teenagers are the engine of the world. They have new ideas, they are creative, and they have all the time in the world to try to makes their ideas happen. They need encouragement, and with that, they can achieve great things. Enthusiasm, pride and the need to feel important are things that define every teenager. This is the last period of their childhood, and the first of their adult life.

Now, we can’t talk about a child anymore. We’re talking about an adult. But, in the end, every adult has the soul of a child. You’ll always see 40-year-olds playing soccer, watching cartoons, or laughing at jokes. After all these years, children have gone from being totally dependant on their parents, to living their own life and being independent. And what have we learned from all this?
That a child is a unique being. That childhood is the most important part of a human’s evolution. Everything that ever touches a child in any way has an effect on his personality. Everything is important and must be taken into consideration: parents, friends, enemies, passions, relationships, ups and downs, wins and losses, everything has a word to say. The evolution of a human being is a very complex process, that has been happening for thousands of years. We’re now starting to understand it, but may never discover all it’s secrets. Until then, go out and play, feed the child in you.

Take a deep breath. No, i mean it. Tradus, ar insemna sa tragi adanc aer in piept. Daca ai si face'o, ar fi perfect. Dar macar incearca.

Si acum, uite-te in jurul tau. Sau...de fapt nu te uita. Gandeste-te ce faci exact acum. Citesti un material postat pe un blog. Blogul unui prieten, unui cunoscut, unui iubit, depinde cum ma vezi.Dar..gandeste-te de ce o faci. Cum o faci. Citesti..pentru ca...genial, iti merge netul. Acum, ce s'ar intampla daca nu ar mai merge netul?

Ti-e frica ca s'ar putea sa nu mai mearga? Putin. Ca ai un plan de rezerva. Daca nu mai merge netul, pui mana pe telefon. Daca cumva nu ti'ai platit factura de telefon, te uiti la Tv. In caz ca nu mai ai curent in casa, eh, atunci ai o problema. Probabil citesti. Sau faci curat. Cand nu mai poti face asta, te joci cu pisica, sau vorbesti cu cei din familie, sau iesi in oras. Planuri de rezerva peste planuri de rezerva, toate raspunzand la cea mai tampita intrebare care exista. "Ce-ar fi daca..?".

E in natura umana sa conceapa planuri de rezerva. Acest lucru sa intampla din cele mai varii motive, incepand cu nevoia de siguranta, de a sti ca ziua de maine va fi la fel sau mai buna decat cea de azi, sau pur si simplu, va fi, si terminand cu presiunea grupului, cu rusinea infrangerii, si toate celelalte. In lipsa unui plan de rezerva, fiecare esec tinde spre catastrofa. Se poate ca dintr'un simplu esec, un om sa nu se poate recupera, sa nu se ridice si sa nu continue lupta. Si se intampla peste tot in jur. Oameni care cedeaza, care renunta la parti din ei, la pasiuni, la iubiri si la prietenii pentru ca nu s-au mai putut ridica. Si nu s-au mai putut ridica doar din motivul ca n'au avut un plan de rezerva. Frica lor de necunoscut a fost atat de puternica, incat odata ce necunoscutul a sosit, nici n-a mai avut ce distruge. Omul a fost prea socat sa mai lupte.

Si de aici incepe totul. Frica de note, frica de scoala, de profesori, de parinti, de faptul ca n'ai sa fii destul de bun cat ar vrea ei, frica de esec, frica de rusine, frica de suferinta, frica de sfarsit, frica, frica, frica. Oamenii nu multumesc pentru ce au din cauza ca apreciaza, ci din cauza ca inca le au. De fiecare data cand se uita in ochii persoanei iubite, in loc sa vada mari de vise, sentimente placute si frumoase, ei vad posibilitatea ca intr'o zi o vor pierde. Ceva trebuie schimbat aici. Trebuie incredere..

Incredere in propriile forte. Increderea de a visa, increderea in tine ca vei putea urmari orice vis. Fara sa'ti fie frica de chestii marunte, cum ar fi suferinta, moartea, si alte prostii. Frica niciodata nu te va duce mai aproape de vise..si totusi, acele vise sunt atat de aproape, uneori. Pasii care trebuie facuti intre o viata obisnuita si o viata perfecta sunt atat de mici, incat nimeni nu'i vede, si, deci, nimeni nu'i face.

Aveti incredere in voi, cei care cititi ce scrie aici! Fiecare puteti schimba lumea, asa cum au facut'o si altii. Nu lumea toata, ci lumea voastra. Iesiti afara si visati, zambiti, fiti frumosi pentru voi, si pentru acei putini oameni care vor zambi inapoi. Uitati-va cu grija in jur, ca poate fericirea voastra e mult mai aproape decat ati putea credea vreodata. Luptati pentru fiecare vis, indiferent cat de mic pare. Daca aveti o viata frumoasa care ati vrea s-o traiti, nu va fie frica de ce ati putea intalni pe drum. Iubiti, fara a va fi frica ca ati putea fi raniti vreodata, caci asa veti ajunge pe culmile viselor. Nu renuntati niciodata, caci singurul lucru de care merita sa va fie frica sunteti voi insiva! Si eu am incredere in fiecare din voi. Nu va fie frica, traiti si visati...

Nu plecati..

Lacul.

Peste lacul din oglinda se asterne-n zare, noaptea.
Ea priveste. El se uita.

In oglinda se reflecta pale lacrimi de nisip
O suita de vieti albe, toate de acelasi tip.
Raze noi, plutesc prin aer ca un stol de aripi vii
Prevestind tot ce’i mai dulce pentru-a stelelor copii.

In oglinda e si cerul, fara nori, pustiu si pur
Un vis scurt, trait pe’o banca, care nu a prins contur
Martorii cararii albe sunt doi greieri adormiti
Care canta, beti de viata, printre frunze stand pititi...

Sub un cer pustiu, albastru, s’a nascut o banca mica
De’o culoare rosie, tare, soarele sa’i poarte pica
Iar pe banca stau culcate, adormite’n vant de soare
Gingase si moi, visate, dar traind, doua petale.

Sub petale, iarba verde, mirosind a catifea
E o rochie fara trena, dar croita pentru ea.
Iarba verde o va face zana muntelui creat
Dintr-un fir de ata alba, fost cusut, dar nu uitat.

Langa zana sta si printul, zambitor ca o lalea
Iar pe banca, stau culcate, coji de lacrimi drept saltea.
Peisajul din oglinda e facut din stropi de vis.
Frumusetea orbitoare izvorata din abis.

Cerul naste mandre stele, ce plutesc in lacul tei..
Printul sta, cu mana’i calda strans captiva’n parul ei.
Pe’al sau umar sta o zana, ce viseaza la o luntre
Doar a lor, pentru iubirea ce le va servi drept punte.

Se privesc..oglinda cade, iar tot paradisul falnic.
Va trai in ochii lor, nu-intr-un ciob de sticla jalnic
Doi ochi verzi, privind in umbra, si sperand a fi iubiti.
De doi ochi, caprui si tineri, ce’o sa’i faca fericiti.

Intr-o clipa, se salveaza, paradisul va trai
Nesfarsite veacuri calde, intre vremuri plumburii.
Un sarut, timid, cu cantec, a fost tot ce’a prevestit..
Ca o viata fericita se va naste din nimic..